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One of our past members has reached out with his story. We are proud to have helped him find happiness.

In my mid-40s, I had reached a period where I had immense business and financial success but little ‘life’ success. I had no children, no marriage and a cadre of friends to fall back on. While I appreciated the camaraderie that we would share together, I never once had any serious relations with any of my female friends.

Marrying a Russian woman, success story

What I did find, though, was that my business was so all-consuming that ever trying to go further with someone made it nearly impossible. Having run out of ideas on how to change that work/life directive, I decided to join this free Russian dating site.

What I immediately found, after having laughed about the stereotypical stigma or someone in my position, was that the ability to find a Russian wife was both far more simplistic, and diverse, than I expected. Now, the one thing that put me off was I didn’t want to find a trophy wife. I wanted to find Russian women for serious relationship goals.

Since my business has taken me to the East of Europe on more than one occasion, I’ve spent a lot of time in the company of Russians, Ukrainians, Belarusians and Georgians. I find them – and their woman – to be incredibly charming, funny people whom I fitted with far better than anyone I met back home. So, I had always had an interest in Eastern European culture and its people. The idea that I could meet a Russian wife, only to treat her as a trophy, was something I found quite distressing.

So, I set out to make sure that, if I was to marry a Russian woman, I would do so for the right reasons. Signing up with Intrigu, I soon found that it was an immensely open location. The people I spoke to were friendly and inviting, and I never once got the feeling that I was being ‘used’ by any of the members.

Before long, I found myself entranced in conversation through this free dating site. After six months of constant communication with several people, I soon found myself on a one-way path to find a Russian wife. She understood me, and I understood her. We liked what the other had to offer, but appreciated something deeply important to me; we were both busy people with our own lives to lead. I hated the idea of being in a marriage where I would have to choose between business or “life”.

So, being able to find a Russian wife who was in my kind of ‘type’ – funny, charming, yet serious and mature with a fair understanding of the limitations that I brought to the table – was a dream come true.

We have now been married for two years, and have enjoyed a deep and friendly relationship that feels like everything we both wanted. Had I not finally had the courage to listen to my heart, I may never have attempted to find Russian women for serious relationship purposes.

And I’m so glad I did!

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